Good Role Models for Your Child

How to Determine Good Role Models for Your Child

In Parenting by Educational Playcare2 Comments

role-modelsMost adults have had at least one role model in their lives. Role models are important to our psychological well-being because they help guide us through certain decision making processes that can ultimately affect the outcome of our lives. Children often have many choices when it comes to choosing role models – most often their first role models are their parents. Later role models include other adults, relatives, and their teachers.

Role models should be a point of inspiration and provide us with an idea of how we should behave in new situations. This is why it’s very important for a potential role model to exhibit good behavior – behavior that children can imitate without repercussion. There are many choices when children are younger, however as they grow older it can become more difficult for good role models to be found.

Helping your child choose a role model involves finding a person who has good morals, doesn’t take part in behavior that is self-destructive, is hard working, creative and free thinking. And while although it’s true that ultimately, you can’t always pick the person that your child will emulate, you can do your part to make sure they are exposed to the type of people who would make good role models to begin with.

Your child’s role model doesn’t have to be Superman or someone famous – in fact, a celebrity may not always be a good choice as many tend to indulge in self-destructive behavior or take part in behavior that is just unsavory to begin with. Good role models might include relative, neighbors or teachers who shares your morals and values.

When your child has discovered that he or she has a role model, it’s important for you as the parent not to put this person on a pedestal. Role models are human and as such are subject to failures and mistakes. You can recognize this person as a guide for the behavior you would like your child to imitate but not necessarily someone your child should act like exclusively.

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